Do you have the courage to admit that your decisions are not really yours?!

Hello, my dear strangers Have you ever felt that you're not truly free in your choices as you think?! Have you ever felt that your decisions are based on others' acceptance of you?! Does every choice or decision you make consciously conflict with someone's opinion and depend on someone else's approval?! I always thought that decisions were as personal as choices. After living for years in struggles over my ownership of them, I found that they are not. How can an adult, responsible person be obliged to make a decision that doesn't align with their beliefs, just to please someone else?! Or due to another's influence? Some of us make decisions based on their social status, others based on their parents' approval, some based on fitting in among peers, and many others. Most believe that choice differs from decision because one is between a person and themselves, while the other is between a person and the world. Thus, they choose to decide according to specific criteria that may differ from their true self, spending their life either regretting their choices or rebelling against their decisions. How can a choice concerning me, or a decision made with full mental capacity, end up hurting someone else?! Painful, isn't it?! Therefore, my dear strangers, we gather here to find out whether we are influencers or influenced by every choice or decision we've made!! We gather to understand how to choose consciously and decide firmly! And how we can accept and coexist with others through this... We dive deep into this meaning and these questions that we all share, hoping to find something that brings peace to our minds and clarity to these meanings. Don't worry, we are like you and with you. We gather here to keep your right to feel valid, and to search together for that peace. Your feelings belong to you, dear one, just as they belong to all of us. To attend, reserve your seat. The fee: 50 Riyals Bank transfer or STC Pay Attendance is limited to those who confirm their presence by sending the payment receipt to WhatsApp "0546222297". The deadline for payment is two days before the event. Amidst the joy of meeting you 🌹🌹