Do you have the courage to admit that your decisions are not truly yours?!

Hello, my dear strangers Have you ever felt that you're not truly free in your choices as you think?! Have you ever felt that your decisions are based on others' acceptance of you?! Does every choice or decision you make confidently clash with someone's opinion and stop at another's approval?! I always thought that decisions were my personal property, just like choices. After living for years struggling over whether I truly owned them, I found that they are not. How can an adult, responsible person, entrusted with making decisions, make one that contradicts their beliefs—just to please someone else?! Or because of another's influence? Some of us choose our decisions based on our social status, others based on their parents' approval, some based on fitting in among peers, and many others. Most people think that choice differs from decision, since one is between a person and themselves while the other is between a person and the world. So they choose to decide according to specific criteria that may differ from their true self, spending their lives either regretful of their choices or rebelling against their decisions. How can a choice concerning me, or a decision I make with full mental capacity, hurt someone else?! Painful, isn't it?! Therefore, my dear strangers, we gather here to find out whether we are influencers or influenced by every choice or decision we've made!! We come together to understand how to choose with conviction and decide with confidence! And how we can accept and coexist with others in its name.. We delve into this meaning and these questions we all share, hoping to find what will calm our minds and clarify these meanings. Don't worry, we are like you and with you. We gather here to keep your right to feel legitimate, and to search together for that peace. Your feelings belong to you, dear one, just as they belong to all of us. To attend, reserve your seat. The fee: 50 SAR Bank transfer or STC Pay Attendance: Limited to those who confirm attendance by sending the payment receipt to WhatsApp "0546222297" Deadline for payment is two days before the meeting. Amid the joy of meeting you 🌹🌹