Do you have the courage to admit that your decisions are not truly yours?!

Hello my dear strangers Have you ever felt that you're not really free in your choices as you think?! Have you ever felt that your decisions are based on others' acceptance of you?! Is it always the case that every choice or decision you make confidently conflicts with someone's opinion and stops at someone else's approval?! I always thought that decisions are personal, just like choices. After living for years in struggles involving my ownership of them, I found that they are not. How can a mature, responsible, and independent person make a decision that doesn't align with their beliefs, just to please someone else?! Or due to another's influence? Some of us make decisions based on their social status, others based on their parents' approval, some based on fitting in among peers, and many others. Most people believe that choice is different from decision, because one is between a person and themselves while the other is between a person and the world. So they choose to decide according to certain criteria that may differ from their true selves, spending their lives either regretting their choices or rebelling against their decisions. How can a choice concerning me or a decision made with full mental capacity hurt someone else?! Painful, isn't it?! Therefore, my dear strangers, we gather here to find out whether we are influencers or influenced by every choice or decision we've made!! We gather to understand how to choose convincingly and decide firmly! And how we can accept and coexist with others in its name.. We dive deep into that meaning and these questions which we all share, hoping to find what will calm our minds and clarify these meanings. Don't worry, we are like you and with you; we gather here so your right to feel remains legitimate, and to search together for that peace. Your feelings belong to you, dear one, just as they belong to all of us. To attend, reserve your seat. Fee: 50 SAR Bank transfer or STC Pay Attendance: Limited to those who confirm attendance by sending payment receipt to WhatsApp "0546222297" Deadline for payment is two days before the meeting In the midst of joy for meeting you 🌹🌹